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Rewriting Your Story: How to Use Neuroscience to Achieve Your Goals



Have you ever set a goal with excitement, only to feel it slip away after a few days? Many of us have experienced that familiar rush of motivation that seems to vanish as soon as we encounter obstacles. Neuroscientists, however, have found a way to help you keep that excitement alive by using your brain’s natural wiring. Dr. Doughty, a renowned neuroscientist, explains that real change happens when you engage multiple senses in your goal-setting process. It’s not just about writing a goal down once and hoping it sticks. It’s about making that goal so real in your mind that your brain recognizes it as important and starts to prioritize it.


This might sound a bit technical, but stay with me—there’s a practical way to make this happen. Imagine writing down a goal, reading it out loud, and even visualizing yourself achieving it, over and over again. It’s like putting an “important” tag on that goal in your mind. And once it’s in there, the brain starts working behind the scenes to make it happen.


Dr. Doughty suggests that anyone can harness this “goal-setting blueprint” by tapping into the subconscious mind. When we repeat these steps, our brain’s networks, like the task-positive network, are activated, helping us stay on track. If you’re ready to learn how to transform a simple idea into a powerful habit, let’s break down this process.


What's Holding You Back?

Why don’t most of our New Year’s resolutions make it to February? Dr. Doughty believes it’s because we set these big goals without taking small, consistent steps. Often, we jump straight to the end—like imagining running a marathon without training for it. But without using mental cues, we’re missing a key part of goal-setting that our brain needs to stay focused.


Let’s say you want to lose weight. It’s tempting to tell yourself, “I’ll lose 20 pounds by summer.” That goal is clear but also overwhelming. Without steps to get there, your brain treats it as just a big idea instead of something actionable. By engaging your senses—writing the goal, visualizing it, and saying it out loud—you signal to your brain that it’s something worth your attention.


Another barrier is negative self-talk. Many of us carry old beliefs that say, “I’m not good at this” or “I never stick to my goals.” Dr. Doughty explains that these thoughts come from something called the “default mode network.” It’s the part of our brain that replays our inner stories, often limiting our beliefs. Recognizing these barriers is the first step to shifting them.


The good news? You don’t have to let these old narratives dictate your future. You can “reprogram” your brain to think differently by embedding new, positive messages. This is where visualization, repetition, and using your senses come into play.


Discovering the Path Forward

So, how do we embed a new goal in our subconscious mind? Start with the basics: write it down. This physical act helps your brain recognize the goal as something tangible. Next, read it silently, then say it out loud. Finally, close your eyes and picture yourself achieving it. By combining these steps, you engage multiple brain networks, making your goal more “real” and memorable.


Dr. Doughty describes a process that taps into three brain networks: the salience network, the attention network, and the executive control network. The salience network is responsible for identifying what’s important. By focusing on your goal and repeating it in different ways, you’re telling this part of your brain, “This matters.”


Next, your attention network kicks in. It’s like a mental spotlight, helping you stay focused on the goal. Finally, the executive control network takes over. Think of this as the “doer” in your brain. It creates plans and follows through, chasing down actions to achieve what’s been prioritized.


To put it simply, this step-by-step method of writing, speaking, and visualizing isn’t just for motivation. It’s a way of embedding your goal into the deepest parts of your mind, ensuring your brain keeps it at the forefront.


Simple Steps to Start Today

Getting started with this process doesn’t need to be complicated. Here’s how you can take action today:

  1. Write Your Goal Down: Start with something specific and achievable. Maybe it’s “walk 10 minutes every day” instead of “get fit.” Write it out on paper—not just on your phone.

  2. Read It Aloud: When you hear yourself say the goal, it strengthens the memory. This simple act makes it feel more real.

  3. Visualize: Take a moment to close your eyes and picture yourself achieving this goal. Imagine how it feels and looks. This sensory experience creates a powerful mental image.

  4. Repeat Daily: Make this routine part of your day. Over time, you’ll find your brain starting to prioritize your goal automatically.


By taking these small, regular steps, you’re conditioning your mind to stay focused. It’s like training a muscle. The more you practice, the stronger your commitment becomes.


Igniting Your Motivation

Staying motivated isn’t just about willpower; it’s about building habits that reinforce your goal over time. Remember, motivation comes and goes, but habits stick. By embedding these steps into your routine, you create a system that keeps you going even when motivation dips.


Quotes and success stories can be a great source of inspiration. Take the famous words of Einstein: “We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them.” Each time you apply these techniques, you’re shifting your thought process and approaching challenges with fresh energy.


Motivation also grows when you see small wins. As you start to reach micro-goals, like “I walked 10 minutes every day this week,” acknowledge these achievements. Success breeds success. Dr. Doughty explains that our brains are wired to respond to progress, so every small step counts.


Lastly, don’t be afraid to celebrate your journey. Motivation isn’t a one-time event; it’s a series of small actions that, over time, lead to big results. By keeping your goals top of mind, you’ll find that motivation becomes a natural part of your daily routine.


Insights from Dr. Peter Gagliardo

Dr. Peter Gagliardo, a leader in behavioral change, emphasizes the importance of mental conditioning for goal achievement. “To truly change,” he says, “we must use all our senses to make our goals feel real. Our brain needs that connection to stay focused.” This insight reinforces why engaging different parts of the mind—through sight, sound, and touch—makes such a difference.


Dr. Gagliardo also highlights the power of small steps. “Big goals can be intimidating, but breaking them down into daily actions makes them achievable. It’s about building confidence through consistency.” This idea of consistent, small wins echoes the importance of creating a routine.


One of his favorite techniques is called “mental rehearsal.” He encourages clients to visualize themselves succeeding and repeating this image daily. “By seeing yourself achieve your goal, you train your brain to believe it’s possible,” he explains. Visualization is a powerful tool for transforming ideas into actions.


With these strategies, Dr. Gagliardo suggests that anyone can reach their goals. It’s not about talent or luck; it’s about using proven techniques to rewire your brain for success.


Take Your Next Step Toward Change

If you’re ready to take control of your goals, start by embedding them into your subconscious. Schedule a free discovery call here to learn more about how we can support you on this journey. Think of it as the first step toward a new way of thinking and achieving.


This journey isn’t just about setting goals; it’s about creating a mindset that supports lasting change. As you practice these techniques, you’ll notice a shift—not only in what you accomplish but in how you view your potential. Let’s work together to build a future you’re excited about, one step at a time.

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